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~18 Reasons Why You Should Date A Girl Who Loves To Travel~

Loveless? Still haven’t found your one true love or perfect soul mate? Well, maybe, you should try dating a girl who thrives on adventures and traveling. From having wondrous and meaningful conversations to experiencing a ton of breathtaking escapades, there are surely a lot of perks of dating a girl who loves to travel and explore the world.

I’m not a love expert, by any means, but trust me, she will sweep you off your feet with her free spirit as well as the mesmerizing sparkle in her eyes, whenever you say: let’s go.

Reasons to date a girl who loves to travel

1) She is witty, intelligent and enthralling

There is never a dull moment with a girl who loves to travel. Whether she’s urging you to take an exciting adventure in a Safari jungle or sharing stories of her epic backpacking escapades, she always has a way to enthrall you. Plus, she’s got the wit and charm to make your conversations more fun and engaging.

A girl who loves to travel is often intelligent, curious and inquisitive. After all, traveling is one of the best forms of education. With enthusiasm and passion, she can talk for a number of hours about her backpacking trips and adventures abroad.

2) Life never gets boring with a girl who loves to travel

Just when you think that your life is heading towards the mundane, she will come up with a trip that will create magic and a spark of excitement in your life. She will plan a trip, and will even have the budget and flights sorted out. She is, then, going to take you to places where you’ve never been to, allowing you to discover a lot of new things that could an extra element of fun and excitement in your life.

A girl who loves to travel also recognizes every opportunity for adventure, excitement and fun. She is always keen to try something new and unusual with you, whether abroad or at home. From building houses in Africa to skydiving in Dubai, she has a sense of adventure that is practically limitless, and you’ll never get bored with her.

3) She’s sprightly and active

Whether she’s hiking the Himalayas or taking a stroll around the neighborhood, she is the kind of girl who wants to be active at all times. While she does love the occasional stops to Starbucks, she is someone that pushes you outside comfort zone, to help you become a better, stronger and healthier version of yourself.

4) She is fun-loving and spontaneous

Travelers, in general, are always up for a blast.  And they rarely say no to things that are new and fun, which makes her a perfect fit to a dude who’s into a good-time and spontaneous relationship.

5) A girl who loves to travel is adaptable and easy-going

After many delays, missed flights, bad restrooms, bad street food and wrong turns, it is safe to say that she is adaptable and easy-going. She is ready for any bumps on the road metaphorically and literally. When life throws a curve ball at her, she smacks it right out of the ballpark with flying colors.

6) She isn’t materialistic

There is no need for you to spend a great deal of money on a girl who loves to travel. As her boyfriend or suitor, you won’t have to buy her extravagant gifts like a ritzy car or a state-of-the-art smartphone, just to impress her or make her happy. As a matter of fact, a simple yet meaningful gift like a photo frame of you and her traveling will sweep her away into bliss.

Looking for the perfect present for a globetrotting girl? Here are a couple of cool travel equipment that traveling gals would love to have.

7) She is easy to please

A girl who loves to travel certainly knows how to appreciate the small and simple things in life. She loves to listen to the chirping birds near your window, or watch the gleaming stars at night. She even goes nuts over the incense sticks that will remind her of the smells in Bali, or the wasabi candies that bring back memories of her unforgettable gastronomic experience in Japan.

8) She can tolerate your untidy room

A girl who loves to travel won’t mind dating a partner who has an untidy room. In fact, tolerating your messy space could be a piece of cake for her.  If she can stay in a hostel dorm with a bunch of unwashed backpackers in Peru or take a piss in a nasty squat toilet in Southeast Asia, then she can definitely endure all the clutter in your room.

9) She knows who exactly she is

Traveling, in a lot of different ways, lets people discover themselves. And of course, a girl who travels a lot knows herself more than anybody else.

10) She’s a good problem solver

It is inevitable for travelers, especially the ones who spend a few months on the road, to run into a few problems. And while most people would freak out when they miss a bus or get pick-pocketed, she has the ability to think in a rational way, and find solutions to solve the problem.

With her as your dating partner, you will always have a reliable person who’ll offer a great piece of advice, every time you’re dealing with a major problem in your life. Not to mention, she can react rationally to issues, whenever they arise in your relationship.

11) She’s open-mined

The more she immerses herself into other cultures, the more open-minded she becomes. Instead of looking at other places and people as weird, she simply learns to view them as something different. So, if you’re girlfriend is a travel junkie, you don’t have to worry about her judging you, and the other unusual things that you want to try. With her, you can be as weird and idiosyncratic as you can be.

12) Your buddies will like her

You will rarely bump into a traveler who is unfriendly and shy. Months of sharing hotel dorms with strangers and talking with foreigners have given her the ability to make friends with anyone in any situation and anywhere.  You won’t have to worry about your friends not liking her because she is social and doesn’t have problems making friends instantly.

13) She is hard-working

She is probably the hardest working gal you will ever meet in your lifetime. She will take a couple of jobs or more, to fund her trips and adventures. What’s more, she shares her travel experiences to the world via a blog, and converts it into an extra source of income.

14) Good financial management skills

Speaking of funds, travelers are also quite proficient, when it comes to financial management. Not only do they spend their money wisely, but they can find a myriad of ways to generate funds on the road as well.

15) She isn’t clingy

She isn’t the kind of girl who wants to know everything you do. She wants to be with you because she likes you and it is fun, and not because she needs to be with you at all times. Unlike most lonely women and men, she won’t use her dating partner to fill a void.

16) She will leave a positive mark in your life

Even if your relationship won’t work out, she will still leave a lasting positive mark in your life. She can change your life for the better, as well as make you a more exciting and well-rounded dude. Furthermore, she can introduce you to a whole lot of new theories and ideas that will make your wiser.

17) She is beautiful in her own special and unique way

She can dress up for you, put on a fragrant perfume and wear glittering jewelry on occasion. But, she will feel more comfortable, beautiful and confident in her shorts and vest tops, with her hair tied back. Her skin is freckly and tanned, and she sports a number of hippy bracelets around her wrists and ankles that she has collected from her globetrotting journey. She is a wanderer, and she is indeed a beautiful creature in her own way.

18) She’s loving and thoughtful

She may be on the road a lot, but a girl who loves to travel never forgets you. You may not hear her voice for a few days, but she constantly writes how she has missed you in her blog or diary. She thinks about you every time she goes to sleep, and she tells all the backpackers in her hostel dorm on how great and wonderful you are. Moreover, she will do her best to find a place with WiFi, so she can call you on Skype or send you a message on Whatsapp.

So, do you think she’s worth it? As far as I’m concerned, she is a sweet girl who, in many ways, can have a positive impact in your life. With her great traits and optimistic outlook, I even think she’s a wifey material. Sure, you are going to be in a wild and crazy ride, but she’s that special someone who you truly want to spend your entire lifetime with. Of course, she is also a great travel companion that will help feed your wanderlust.

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~Why You Should Date A Girl Who Doesn’t Need To Wear Make To Feel Beautiful~


Every woman is beautiful. Every woman has something special, unique and defining about her. Every woman is perfect in her own regard; yet few women decide to show themselves that way.

In a world where media outlets dictate what hair color, body shape and bust size is deemed acceptable, more and more women are conceding to the media’s idea of beauty, giving in to the styles, trends and illusions it wants us to portray, rather than staying true to ourselves. We go to work with eyeliner, fake lashes, piles of blush and foundation. I must ask, why? For whom? For ourselves?

As teenagers, many girls already start applying the popular colors and cremes, going to school as “grownup” versions of themselves. They ask their moms to let them start wearing bronzer and mascara, so they, too, can get the attention of the boys.

From an early age, they start believing they are only whole when masked by a layer of makeup and concealer. They think beauty is in the way they can draw on a cat eye and perfectly apply blush on the apple of their cheekbones. But what about the girls who didn’t wear makeup in high school? Isn’t there beauty in that?

Of course, there’s nothing wrong with women who wear makeup, I wear it myself, and many times I do it for myself. I do it so I can present the best version of myself and have the confidence I wish I was born with. However, I’ve been starting to pull away from that, wondering: If women stop wearing makeup, will there be a liberation?

The one who doesn’t wear makeup is a certain type of woman. Many times, yes, she’s the woman who is so flawless she doesn’t need anything, but so describes many of the women who wear makeup. Many of the women concealed by caked bronzer and heavy eye shadow have delicate skin and perfect features. So why hide behind pounds of cosmetic binding? The girl who doesn’t wear makeup isn’t afraid to expose her true self, the face she was born with.

The woman who doesn’t wear makeup is not a better woman, just a different type of woman. She’s a woman who doesn’t give in to societal pressures or the allure of a “sexier” image. She doesn’t spend hours in front of the mirror, but rather, uses that time for other things. She’s confident in a different type of way. She’s the girl who really doesn’t give a f*ck and doesn’t care if you’re offended by her inability to apply bronzer.

She’s the woman who feels no shame walking into work just the way she woke up. She’s the woman who you can go to bed with, knowing exactly what she’ll look like when you wake up in the morning.

She’s the woman who needs more respect, because she’s bold enough to not wear makeup every day and that’s why she’s the perfect girl to date. (Of course, all these reasons are not to say women who wear makeup don’t possess these qualities, as every woman is beautiful in her own skin, whether she recognizes her self as so or not.)

This is the appeal of a woman who doesn’t wear makeup:

She’s comfortable in her own skin.

She accepts her imperfections.

She doesn’t need compliments or flattery to feel worthy.

She’s too busy to take the time to apply eyeliner.

She’s got good genes.

She’s confident in herself.

She’s easy to wake up next to.

She’s not worried about her mascara fading.

She travels light.

She can go skinny dipping without looking like a raccoon when it comes time to dry off.

She’s not always staring at herself in the mirror.

She’s accepted her least attractive version of herself.

She’s never going to pretend to look like someone else.

She’s not scared of what men think of her.

She doesn’t search for acceptance in anyone but herself.

She doesn’t let her beauty define her.

She doesn’t get upset when she’s missing lipstick.

She looks her age.

She doesn’t make you guess what she really looks like.

She can get caught off guard and not care.

She doesn’t take hours to get ready.

She doesn’t spend her money on tubes and compacts.

She’s not worried about smudges and smears.

She can go to the beach and not look like a stranger.

She finds beauty in the untouched.

She makes people feel comfortable.

She’s not afraid to show you her true self.

She’s not competitive with other women.

She seems simple but has many layers.



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13 Ways You Know You’re Dating A High-Quality Woman

1. She encourages you to pursue your goals, but she doesn’t micromanage. She trusts you to make the right decisions in your own life. She’s the cheerleader, not the coach.

2. She doesn’t try to make you jealous. She’s secure in her worth, and your ability to recognize how valuable she is. She doesn’t need to play games to “trick” you into seeing her her for what she is.

3. She doesn’t have a princess complex. She demands that you treat her with respect — but because she is a person you love, not because she is a woman and therefore magically entitled to something. Just as she would expect you to treat your friends and family with respect, she knows you wouldn’t treat her any other way. A high-quality woman wouldn’t be with a man who was disrespectful to the people he is close to in life.

4. She has a part of her life that doesn’t involve you. Friends, hobbies, career — whatever. She’s confident and independent enough to not need your involvement in everything she does.

5. You wouldn’t think twice about inviting her into different parts of your life: a barbecue with your college friends, a dinner with your parents, a fancy work party — she knows how to handle herself in different settings. She’s mature enough to make a good impression with your colleagues and wise enough to know letting loose with your friends and having fun doesn’t mean she’s immature.

6. She takes care of herself. This doesn’t mean she is perfect, it means she is always improving. You don’t have to tell her she needs to solve a problem in her life. She’s self-aware and sees what issues she has and is self-motivated enough to constantly be working to improve them. She needs a partner, not a dad.

7. When she is in a situation where she doesn’t know people, she introduces herself confidently. She doesn’t cling meekly to your side waiting for you to facilitate every social interaction.

8. A reasonable, non-hyper-conservative employer could look at her social media presence and hire her.

9. She isn’t shy about sex. If she doesn’t want to do something, she can articulate why instead of just saying “ew”. Your sex life with her isn’t a shady secret she feels uncomfortable talking about, it’s adult and healthy and you both work to keep the flame alive.

10. She has opinions more than “idk” and she can talk calmly and non-hyperbolically about them. If she disagrees with you, you can have a conversation about it without anyone raising their voice.

11. She would never joke with her friends or family (or worse, your friends or family) about how men are “stupid” or childish, or whatever “happy wife happy life” mantra you’ve heard women use to put down the partners they love.

12. She knows what she wants in life. She doesn’t change her values or goals to tailor fit the guy she is with.

13. You feel lucky to be dating her because you know she would never date anyone just to date them. She isn’t afraid to be single and she is self-sufficient. You know she is dating you because she’s attracted to you and she thinks that you will help each other grow to be even higher quality, together.

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